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    • I have done things to or with my partner’s body that they say hurt, are unpleasant or that I could see they didn’t like. For example, held them down, pushed them, thrown something at them, hit them or choked them.
    • I’ve done sexual things to my partner even though I haven’t been sure they want me to. For example, forced myself on them with my lips, tongue, fingers or my sex, secretly filmed us having sex or taken advantage of them being asleep or drunk/under the influence of drugs.
    • I’ve crossed my partner’s boundaries digitally. For example, secretly checked their mobile phone, tablet or computer, logged in to their private accounts, or spread photos or information without their permission or made them give me their passwords.
    • My partner is sometimes afraid of me.
    • I often get jealous and I usually tell my partner what clothes or make-up I want them to wear and which friends it’s ok for them to meet.
    • I’ve pressured my partner to do things they don’t want to do.
    • I’ve threatened to harm myself or my partner.
    • I’ve threatened to harm someone close to my partner, like a member of their family or a pet.
    • I’m often aggressive towards my partner, I flare up, destroy things, become physically threatening.
    • I think I often become a bit too angry and argue a lot with my partner, for example I raise my voice and yell hurtful things.